Why does life have to hurt so much? Most of us believe tomorrow will be a better day and know if we just hang on, we'll make it through this one, however ugly it is. Well, that's just not true. Love is painful, because it creates the way for joy, for bliss and for compassion. I never imagined that I would have to help her change her catheter every day. That is the first step towards God, and it cannot be bypassed.
When it comes to the study of love and feeling, researchers are mainly preoccupied with understanding … Psychological illness has taken epidemic proportions. Whilst love may be a feature of your relationship, it is just one thread in the emotional and mental tapestry that makes up … Disappear as a dewdrop and become the ocean, but you will have to pass through the door of love.
All else is just a means, love is the end. You are part of the whole. Others have decided for a slow suicide; gradually, slowly, slowly they die. For whatever reason, we seem to have this funny idea that love is supposed to be bliss or that when we get married we've somehow achieved a state of 'happily-ever-after.'
Lust is what romantic stories and fairytale endings describe: an intense, overwhelming, all-consuming desire, an inability to think about anything other than how to capture the heart and more to the point, the body of the object of our desire.Illustration by Vivian Shih. You have a crush on someone. And more often than not, we fall in love with someone who just couldn’t love us back the way we want them to. And when he speaks to you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden. We asked. You have become identified with the illusion, true, but the illusion is still an illusion. And if to be in harmony with a single person gives such joy, what will be the outcome if you are in harmony with all human beings? Everyone is stuck with one’s own illusion of having a separate self; then people go mad. He knows only himself. At first glance, it feels as if he must have got it wrong. The whole penetrates you, the whole breathes in you, pulsates in you, the whole is your life.The man who is without love is narcissistic, he is closed. Why, then, did the poet Kahlil Gibran describe love like this? Love gives you the first lesson that you can fall into harmony with someone who has never been part of your ego. But those are very essential problems! Once it takes roots, it can be forever.
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